A family of three living in a 700-square-foot downtown condo, whereby theirĀ condo fees alone have risen 5 per cent, 7 per cent, 13.5 per cent, 9.5 per cent and 6 per cent a year over the past five years … They have been saving for a $500,000 starter homeĀ for the past 2-3 years, the same home now costs at least $750,000 and rising … And his second child is on the way.
A rare breed: Home buyer balks at a $500,000 mortgage

Debt does not rest lightly on his shoulders.
Thatās why a guy weāll just call Frank is having a tough time in the current Toronto real estate market. He figures heāll have to borrow upward of half a million dollars, and heās freaking out.
āItās a death sentence,ā said the 35-year-old husband and father of a young child. All three are living in a 700-square-foot downtown condo, and Frank says they need to
Frankās an engineer and his wife is an office administrator. They make good money, theyāve got no debt other than their condo mortgage and theyāve put together a down payment of $125,000. The bank says buying a $700,000 house is no problem for them, but Frank is squeamish about spending that much money. For the past three years, heās been saving with a goal of spending $500,000 on a starter home.
āThe problem is that over the past two or three years, while weāve been saving our down payment, the half-million-dollar starter home became a three-quarters-of-a-million-dollar starter home.ā
Canada needs more Franks ā people who take a skeptical to paranoid view of debt. Weād have a more affordable housing market, lower household debt levels and less vulnerability to rising interest rates. Weād be both healthier as a country, and quite possibly wealthier.
But you canāt easily opt out of taking on big debts. If everyone else in Toronto is willing to keep bidding house prices higher, then whatās a guy like Frank supposed to do if he wants a house for his family?
Oddly, buying does make some sense for this high earner. Rona Birenbaum, a financial planner at Caring for Clients, did a quick analysis of his situation and found that a $550,000 mortgage plus various other basic housing costs would eat up about 25 per cent of his pretax household income. Thatās well below the 32-per-cent threshold the banks use for affordability. Bottom line, Frank and his wife would be able to carry a mortgage, save a reasonable amount and spend money on other things.
Ms. Birenbaum figures Frankās mortgage payments would rise about $600 a month if he renewed in five years and interest rates went up two percentage points. Taking Frank at his word that his family lives frugally, she said heād still be okay.
She does have a few provisos for Frank, one being that the cost of daycare for a second child could squeeze his familyās budget. Another is that he should plan to stay in the house he buys for the long term, rather than moving to something larger after just a few years. If Frank stays put, he wonāt have to worry about the possibility that prices could fall in the near term.
āIf youāre going to own real estate in Toronto for the next 20 or 30 years, then weāre not at the high end of the market now,ā Ms. Birenbaum said.
Frank has considered taking an intermediate step of moving to a larger condo, but heās put off by his recent experience with condo fees. Pay attention if youāve been considering buying a condo because these numbers are scary.
According to Frank, his condo fees have risen 5 per cent, 7 per cent, 13.5 per cent, 9.5 per cent and 6 per cent a year over the past five years, respectively. āSince Iāve been in my condo, the yearly increases in fees are way beyond inflation.ā
That leaves renting, which Frank is open to. But he recognizes that finding a suitable property will be hard in Torontoās tight rental market, and he doesnāt want to be locked into a lease in case thereās a big downturn in house prices.
If he buys, Frank would like to save up a bigger down payment and thereby reduce the amount he has to borrow. He suggested the idea of suspending contributions to his registered retirement savings plan to build up his down payment, and Ms. Birenbaum said that would be fine over a period of two or three years, max.
But hereās the problem: Prices in Toronto jumped in August, and so did mortgage rates. Ms. Birenbaumās take on buying is that sooner is better than later.
What should Frank do? That question is posed on my Facebook personal finance page and I expect a lively debate. My thought is to take the renting option as far as it will go and, if that doesnāt work, accept the inevitability of a big mortgage debt.
It sounds like Frank is already questioning whether his aversion to debt is working against him. āInevitably, youāre at the will of the masses,ā he said. āAnd if the masses are going to jump and make a horrible mistake, youāre almost forced to do it as well.ā
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What should Frank do?
- 1. Suck it up and buy a house already.
- 2. Buy a larger condo that has more space for his family, but costs less than a house.
- 3. Just say no to the housing market and rent.
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